In Positive Coaching Alliance Double-Goal Coaching Tip
2: Player of
the Day
by Jim
Thompson
Positive
Coaching
Alliance
Welcome
to Positive
Coaching
Alliance’s
Double-Goal
CoachTM
Tips. This
regular
feature in
Little
League
publications
draws from
training
presented in
partnership
with Little
League
Baseball and
Softball by
Positive
Coaching
Alliance (PCA),
a Stanford
University-based
non-profit
dedicated to
ensuring a
positive,
character-building
experience
for all
youth
athletes.
This month’s
tip is the
“Player of
the Day,”
which is
particularly
useful in
getting
through to
players who
remind you
of Bill
“Spaceman”
Lee. Most of
the time,
you’re
probably
trying to
corral these
players, get
and keep
their
attention,
prevent them
from
distracting
the
others…and
too often
correcting
their
behavior or
attitude.
Instead,
make a
hard-to-reach
player the
Player of
the Day,
eligible for
all the
praise you
can find to
heap on him
or her. Do
not mention
this to the
player. Just
focus on
finding the
positives in
that player,
that day,
and
compliment
the player
every time
possible.
Two caveats:
-
This must
not be
“happy
talk” – no
inventing
positive
behavior
-
Praise
must be
truthful
and
specific
(i.e.,
“Tommy,
thanks for
hustling
into the
dugout
without
being
reminded).
This form of
positive
reinforcement
helps the
athlete feel
better –
more in
control,
able to
accomplish
something
and less
likely to
rebel for
the sake of
rebellion
against that
coach who’s
“always on
my case.”
You might
start
feeling
better
yourself, as
you see your
player’s
behavior and
attitude
improve.
Plus, any
other
problem
players
might get
the message
that they
too can be
player of
the day if
they
straighten
up and fly
right, come
back to
earth, or
exhibit
other
non-Spaceman
behavior.
To bolster
your
Coaching
expertise
or
toolkit,
be sure to
take
advantage
of the
recently-launched
Little
League
Double-Goal
Coach
Course,
today!
Click
here:
http://www.positivecoach.org/LittleLeague