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Don’t Be a Bleacher Coach

Don’t Be a Bleacher Coach

Go to any youth game, no matter the sport, and it’s all but guaranteed to see parents trying to coach their child from the stands. Some are more subtle with the way they try to get their kid’s attention; maybe with a short whistle or a quick hand wave. Some are more obvious and direct – “Hey, Brody!” Whatever the method of attempted communication, parents who are “bleacher coaches” should allow the adults in the dugout to manage the players and the game.

Support from the Stands


From its founding in 1939 to now, one of the goals of Little League® is to provide an outlet where kids can be kids while allowing them to learn, grow, and mature at their own pace with the gentle guidance of a volunteer coaching staff. For many parents, the Little League experience is the first time, outside of school, where their child experiences some level of individuality. Physically, there’s distance between the bleachers and the field. Players should have that same distance from an instruction standpoint. It’s important for kids to know that their parents are in the stands, but that presence should be of the supportive nature, cheering and complimenting, not coaching.

Coach from the Dugout


Let your child learn the game, and the other life lessons Little League provides, by allowing the coaches to handle player guidance and direction, as well as team maneuvering. Even if you think your daughter is playing too deep in center field, let the coaches make that call. They probably know better than you who is up to bat, and who has the ability to hit a sky-high fly. Even if you think your son should be playing even with third base, let the coaches call the positioning. Maybe the manager suspects a bunt. And, whatever you do, don’t contradict any of the direction from the dugout. If you hear the manager tell the infield to play back with bases loaded, no out, and down by two, don’t motion for your son or daughter at first to play up. Hearing one thing from the dugout, and something opposite from mom or dad in the bleachers will confuse your Little Leaguer®, and frustrate your team’s manager.

If you do disagree with your child’s manager, wait 24 hours until after the end of the game, and then contact the manager to discuss your thoughts. Or, consider volunteering and spending time at your child’s next practice to become more active in those game-time decisions.

At Little League games, coaches should do the coaching, and parents should do the parenting. Sit in the stands, and provide positive reinforcement and support. Often times, the playing field is a place where children can experience something they love without mom and dad by their side. Give them some space, and let them grow into themselves while they have a ton of fun with their friends.